How can we possibly forgive someone who has done something we believe is wrong? How can we say it's ok if we feel attacked after reaching out to try to help someone? How can we say it's ok after an intoxicated driver hits and kills our friend? Wouldn't the act of forgiveness itself go against everything we believe to be right? How could I forgive myself by accepting the very thing I would never even imagine doing or saying myself? Forgiveness is not something we do. Forgivene